Every girl is
different; if they were all alike, you wouldn't be interested in this one in
particular, now would you? There are as many different ways to attract girls as
there are girls, so let's go over some basic rules that will win over any girl
worth getting.
Make
an Impression:
v There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl
might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate
a unique skill, talent or something difficult to do that you're proud of like playing
guitar and singing in tune at the same time, something that sets you apart from
the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost
your confidence too. Impress her, but do not boast too much about your great
achievements and plans.
Be
her friend:
v Girls don't just fall for random strangers. (Well, some do, but the
relationship never goes very far!) If you're in the same Geometry class as her,
learn her name. Every time she walks into class, smile at her. Sometimes this
is all it takes for a young woman to notice you. At the same time though, don't
do this too often! It will just end up looking like you're obsessed with her.
But if you talk to other women too, like friends of yours, then she'll see that
you're all there. If she doesn't seem to see you, when she walks by, just say
"Hi _______." In a friendly way. This way she'll know you exist. If
she's shy, she might just smile back, so don't take this as a sign that she
doesn't like you! However, if you want your relationship to move ahead, don't
get stuck in the quicksand - that is the 'Friend Zone'. Sometimes a girl won't
go out with you because she's afraid if the relationship ends badly, she'll
lose your friendship! To start moving things along, be a little flirty! A woman
will only be intimate with a man she knows, trusts and cares about; and this
can only be achieved with time and friendly chat.
Talk
to girl:
v Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what
gets her excited. Be positive. If you had a bad day, still greet her pleasantly
with a big smile. Most importantly, listen to everything she says. Whether she
talks about herself, her family, hobbies or anything, pay attention. Some
things could be useful or important to know later in the relationship. Nod to
show that you're listening, and also respond to what she says so she knows that
you really are listening. Women are very appreciative of guys who demonstrate
sincere interest in what they say.
Be
Romantic with girl:
v The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles, chocolate and teddy
bears) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone
excited. Recognize what makes her unique; find and do things that only she
would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions
and fantasies? Whenever she's shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what
makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Girls easily notice if you still
remember things they told you a long while ago. Being romantic means
acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you
know—better than anyone else in the world—what makes her unique.
Compliment
her:
v If you really like someone, you probably appreciate a lot of things
about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her
hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt) make note of it. The more unique the
compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls
like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something
that plenty of other women have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be
original, perhaps by specifying a particular feature. Better yet, compliment
her personality or skills.
Make
her laugh:
v Telling jokes or funny stories is a classic way to make a person laugh,
but not the only one. Find out which are her favourite comedians, funny movies,
or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Be bold and think of some antics that will
make her laugh. Tell your girl to dare you to do something, and then do it (as
long as it's not illegal, of course). Laughter will come by itself if both of
you are relaxed and enjoying each other’s company.
Look
good:
v Work out run a mile or two, do some sit ups, get a six pack, etc. Also
get a tan, so when you go to the pool and she is there, she will be like,
"wow". Most not all women like a guy with a tan and some muscles, but
don't overdo it; girls don't like it when you have too much muscles. That just
shows that you love your muscles too much.
Give
her Value:
v Women want to feel important and valued; do not pay only two pennies for
her when she knows she is worth fifty pennies, figuratively speaking; use only
the most difficult contact method that you got that require the greatest
effort; do not use a short cheap email note to ask her for her personal
information or a date, but ask in person preferably at her home. Not doing this
probably leads to no response or rejection of you.
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