Question: Respected doctor, am 23 years old girl,
unmarried. I have masturbation habits. I do masturbate weekly 5 to 10 times,
now am not able to maintain my mood well, even if I stimulates my clitoris hardly am not get good mood,
having plenty of vaginal watery discharge also,
now a days my mood will goes very low, even am seeing pornography movies
am not get enough mood. Pain in vagina, lower back, hands and legs after doing
masturbation, memory also very low, not able to concentrate in works, no proper
sleep also. Its possible to find my coming husband that am have habit of
masturbation? I feel fear, palpitation and shyness. I underwent many Treatments
but no effect, Doctors told its due to Over masturbation effects, Is there is
any treatment in Homeopathy system of medicines for over masturbation effects?
Doctor Answer: Hi Dear, No worries, Homeopathy
treatment helps for you, please find the complete details about masturbation below. Proper treatment helps
you; you need to consult the doctor in person to rule out your doubts.
What
is Masturbation?
When an orgasm is
produced by manual stimulation of the genitals it is called masturbation.
Masturbation is one of the first primal forms of sexual behaviour usually
Masturbation was considered a sin in the late 1800's and the early part of the
last century. Before the 1960s, excessive masturbation was considered a mental
condition, fixating on immature or undesirable behaviour, leading to lack of
adult responses.
In today's current sexual
climate, where people are discovering themselves as well as each other
masturbation can be an important and pleasurable activity for people, no matter
whether you are in a short or long term sexual relationship. Often it can add
more happiness and sensuality to your whole sexual dimension.
In this time of sexual
disease people who are single continue to have normal sex drives. The safest,
easiest sexual relief and pleasurable satisfaction available to us can be
masturbation. In fact, masturbation is the safest form of sex there is.
Warning: It is not safe to
experiment by masturbating with a vacuum cleaner. This is extremely dangerous
and not to be recommended.
Do all
Men Masturbate?
Masturbation is a natural
part of life to most men. Nearly all males masturbate though some more
frequently than others. The vast majority of men have masturbated since a young
age. A male child discovers that his penis feels good as a relatively young
baby. By the age of 14 most boys discover that masturbation leads to orgasm and
ejaculation.
In certain religions men,
mostly from eastern cultures, try to avoid masturbating, believing it depletes
their energy. Some men may not want to do it because they are hung up on the
whole sexual condition, or if they have a low libido.
How do
Men Masturbate?
There are lots of methods
for masturbation. It is a personal thing to find what suits you best and is
most effective.
- The simplest technique is to begin
by simply squeezing the penis, until the penis becomes semi-erect and then
stroking from the tip to the base of the penis.
- Another common method is to begin
by slowly rubbing the penis building up to a more vigorous movement. You
may like to grasp the shaft of your penis wrapping your whole hand round
it.
- Others may want to hold or grasp
their penis between their thumb and first or middle finger. If you are
uncircumcised, you can draw the foreskin over the head of the penis and
then pull it back down the shaft to get an erection.
- If you are circumcised, repeated
squeezing round the shaft and letting go is usually effective. Try holding
off ejaculation by varying the stroke when you become too excited, before
finally letting go in orgasm
Some
men like additional stimulation:
- All the genital area, groin,
penis, scrotum gradually becomes more sensitive to the touch.
- Many men enjoy gently pressing on
and massaging the scrotum.
- The male nipples are very
sensitive to stimulation.
- Some men enjoy fondling their
testicles.
- Some enjoy penetrating the anus
with a finger.
What
to Do?
- Some men prefer to lie down on a
bed to masturbate
- If the underside of the penis rubs
against the bed you may be more stimulated
- Most men prefer to masturbate
using a lubricant as they find it more pleasurable. KY gel, a clear, water
based gel, is suitable as it does not contain oils which destroy condoms.
There are many different
strokes you can use on the penis. Sexual devices, such as vibrators, a shower
tub jet may be employed during masturbation if desired. A tub jet stimulates
the penis much like having a giant vacuum cleaner sucking the semen out of the body.
Some men have sexual fetishes, such as using articles of clothing or dressing
up in women's clothing, pornography, internet etc., while masturbating.
Some men may still like
to masturbate even when they are involved with a partner and have a satisfying
relationship. This can become a problem that is difficult to face as it is
often hard to talk about with a partner. Sometimes the partner might
misinterpret the masturbation as a form of rejection. However, if the problem
can be resolved, often mutual masturbation can become a part of normal sexual
practice. Masturbating in front of the woman he loves, can be thought of as an
expression of love, not rejection, and can be a highly erotic and loving
activity for both partners.
Can
you do it too much?
It is almost impossible
to do this even though some young boys worry that they masturbate too much.
When a teenager first discovers sex it seems wonderful to masturbate several
times a day over a period of time. Other boys masturbate less, but that is
normal for them. Everyone is different. If it became totally excessive 24 hours
of the day there may be reason for concern. It is still possible to masturbate
several times a week for some men in their 70s and 80s. Generally, however, men
masturbate more in their teens, gradually lessening with age.
Unattached single men,
and gay men, of course, tend to masturbate more frequently than married men.
For gay men in a relationship, mutual masturbation is often a primary sexual
outlet.
What
about Masturbation and Pornography?
Almost all men will have
at some point in their lives masturbated while looking at X-rated magazines or
sexy videos. This would be considered quite a normal activity for a single guy.
Masturbation using
pornography is an issue to be worked out between each other if you and your
partner are in a committed relationship. Some female partners often find it
hard to accept this sort of activity and may feel rejected and threatened by
it.
The relationship is
usually in some trouble and ceases to be normal when a man prefers this kind of
sexual indulgence to having sex with his partner. These types of men may use
pornography more and more for relief rather than face up to the problems in
their sexual relationship. Help and counselling is advised if the man wants to
save his relationship but is dependent on pornography for sexual satisfaction.
Can
Male Masturbation be Useful in helping with Sex Problems?
One of the commonest sex
problems men experience is premature ejaculation (PE), which is where the man
ejaculates too quickly when he has sex with a partner. Premature ejaculation
can be helped to some extent by masturbating. Although PE usually requires
specialist help some men are able to help themselves by gaining more control
over their climaxes while masturbating.
The man has to practice
beginning to masturbate and allowing himself to get almost to the point of
ejaculation, then stopping and calming down before carrying on. Do this several
times before giving in and having an orgasm and it may help develop the
necessary control needed to delay his orgasm during intercourse. This
stop-start technique should be practiced on a regular basis.
Ejaculatory incompetence
(retarded ejaculation) is the other common male sex problem that can be
sometimes helped by masturbating. With this condition a man can maintain an
erection for a long time during sex, but cannot relax enough to let go and
climax inside his partner. As many men with this condition are quite uptight
about sex, they need to learn to masturbate with their partner as this can help
them immensely. If a man has difficulty doing this he can start by masturbating
in the next room to his partner. After a week or so try to do it in the same
room. Eventually he should be able to masturbate right beside her, so close to
her that he can place his penis into her vagina.
Men who can masturbate
for 15-20 minutes without ejaculating are less likely to suffer from problems
of premature ejaculation during intercourse.
Do
Women Masturbate?
Masturbation is a natural
and healthy method of sexual release engaged in by most people of both sexes.
At an early age many girls discover pleasant feelings from stimulating their
genitals and discover how to masturbate to orgasm in their mid to late teens or
even earlier. Girls do not necessarily have the same feelings as young boys who
find masturbation a more natural thing. Many girls and young women do not feel
strong sexual urges. Sometimes it may take the girl many years before she
reaches an orgasm (19-20). Some females may not reach one for years after that
or not at all, with or without masturbating. Some women find sexual liberation
in their 40's.
Masturbation can be a
wonderful way to educate oneself about the body and sexual responses. If women
can reach orgasm by masturbating they are more likely to have orgasms with
their partners.
Some women's nipples get
hard when excited or having an orgasm
- Some might flush red or begin to
tremble
- Tension in the vaginal area and a
build-up of warmth can also preclude orgasm
Caution: Using fruit/vegetables
(especially unwashed) or other foreign items may introduce infection into the
vagina. Never use anything breakable like glass or sharp objects for obvious
reasons. An electric toothbrush in the vagina causes damage to delicate tissues
of the vagina and should be avoided.
Where
do I go for help if I need it?
If
you have deeper more specific sexual problems, including how to deal
emotionally with sexual issues, you may need professional help. Your health
professional may be able to put you in contact with a psychologist
If you have problems with
addiction to sex, including pornography, good to seek the expert advice without
delay
Problems
facing after masturbation
Ø
General weakness
Ø
Mental worries
Ø
Pain in limbs
Ø
Relaxed penis
Ø
Lack of erection for
several days (somebody wants to do frequent masturbation for several times per
day)
Ø
Pain in penis
Ø
Head ache
Ø
Stress
Ø
Depression
Ø
Problem to facing girls
and friends
Ø
Lack of sexual desire
with partner
If you have any one of
these problem after masturbation, you may need sex counselling and rejuvenating
therapy
Sex
counselling and Rejuvenation Therapy treatment
Rejuvenation
therapy and sex counselling works well to overcome from over masturbation
effect, rejuvenation therapy helps to strengthen the nervous system and helps
to increase the sperm count, it helps to overcome from nervous weakness, and
also helps to increase the erection time, it also prevent the premature
ejaculation
Whom to contact for Over
Masturbation effect Treatment
Dr.Senthil Kumar Treats many cases of Over masturbation addicts, In his medical
professional experience with successful results. Many patients get relief after
taking treatment from Dr.Senthil Kumar. Dr.Senthil Kumar visits Chennai
at Vivekanantha Homeopathy Clinic, Velachery, Chennai 42. To get appointment
please call 9786901830, +91 94430 54168 or mail to consult.ur.dr@gmail.com,
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